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Orgasms cause anal sex! - Elf M. Sternberg
Orgasms cause anal sex!
William Saleton has the pithiest take yet on the recently released national sex survey, in which he highlights the result that between 1992 and today, the rate of anal sex among women rose from 16% to an astounding 46%. But what's even more amazing is that women who had only intercourse experienced orgasm 65%; women who had intercourse and cunnilingus in the same session had orgasms 86% of the time; but women who had anal sex experienced orgasm 94% of the time.

Saleton correctly identifies the correlation (it's not causation), and it comes down to this: women comfortable enough to enjoy anal sex are pretty much relaxed enough to orgasm. They're women who get what they want.

Saleton ruins his analysis with this line: "Women who were getting what they wanted were more likely to indulge their partners' wishes [for anal sex]." Anal is apparently something a woman doesn't like, but something she does in exchange for what she really wants. Saleton has clearly never dated woman who's also an anal power bottom.

Current Mood: amused amused
Current Music: O'Callahan and Downey, One Way Ticket

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pixel39 From: pixel39 Date: October 8th, 2010 09:22 pm (UTC) (Link)
He's probably never actually had good anal. The poor, poor misguided man.

I was going to add "That's ok, more for us!" but then I realized that, unlike, say, ice cream, sex is not a finite resource and therefore there is more for us regardless of who else is or isn't getting it. *grins*
gromm From: gromm Date: October 8th, 2010 10:35 pm (UTC) (Link)
"Women who were getting what they wanted were more likely to indulge their partners' wishes [for anal sex]."

Here's another interpretation: If her partner isn't satisfying her sexually, she's more likely to not indulge their demands for anal sex. More than likely because either they're boring in bed (and probably unlikely to even ask in the first place), or he's the kind of jerk that would make the experience unpleasant.

If he's the kind of guy that does whatever he needs to get her off on the other hand, maybe women are far more willing to give them anything they want in general, and butt sex in particular.

In my experience, women mostly take it in the ass from people they really trust.
caprine From: caprine Date: October 9th, 2010 12:08 am (UTC) (Link)
Heh. Favorite anal sex conversation ever:

Somewhat clueless date: I can't believe you let me do that to you and I didn't even have to buy you jewelry.

Me: I didn't let you do that to me. I made you do that to me.
From: (Anonymous) Date: November 4th, 2010 09:58 pm (UTC) (Link)

made you do it to Me!

Now that was funny! Good for you
dr_memory From: dr_memory Date: October 9th, 2010 08:07 pm (UTC) (Link)
Saleton has clearly never dated woman who's also an anal power bottom.

Please don't make me have to imagine William Saleton having any sort of sex with anyone. DO NOT WANT.
abostick59 From: abostick59 Date: October 10th, 2010 06:43 pm (UTC) (Link)
Wait a minute -- did this survey make the distinction between pitching (e.g. with strapons) and catching?
From: sophiemagny Date: October 29th, 2010 01:45 pm (UTC) (Link)
There's one thing he forgot to mention in the article http://www.slate.com/id/2269951/, girls are not easely willing to say they like anal sex, use sextoys or watch porn
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