And it's hard to imagine any parent discussing sex in something other than the acquisitional model with their own daughters. To put it in Sex is like improvisational music model looks nearly impossible, even to me, and believe me, I've tried.
Because girls "know" they're the essentially vulnerable ones in any sexual relationship, and the initial, fumbling ones are always the hardest in which to overcome that vulnerability. It will take a real twist in the fabric of our culture to help both sexes overcome the crapton of media messages about relationships and sex.
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